Scientifically, we all share one thing in common, and that is that we are made up of 70% water. It’s a wonder we aren’t all floating blobs, suspended as if in space—science truly is amazing! I saw a statement the other day and I laughed: “If you like water, then, well, you’ll already like 70% of me.” The saying was cute after a rather challenging day, and it made me smile. But then it got me thinking about the relationships we form with others and how even water can become unsafe for consumption.

So, for just a minute I’d like for you to think of yourself as a clean glass of water filled a little over 2/3 of the way. What does it look like? Is your water clear and fresh? Or is it cloudy and contaminated? Is its temperature so hot or cold that others would need gloves or a pot holder to touch you? Is it covered, or will it spill its contents if tipped over. Your glass. Does it have a hole? Is it leaking? Or is it impenetrable?

Now that you’ve imagined yourself as a glass I want you to apply it to your life and the people with whom you surround yourself. Are your actions and thoughts clear? Or are they clouded with judgement and negativity? Do you surround yourself with people who remain calm when things go awry, as they often do, and do you emit the same energy? Or, do you get so heated or cold that you are become unapproachable to others. The people in your circle whom you trust—when you need them most are they too hot or cold to provide you the anchor you need to keep from floating out to sea? Are the people in your life glass fillers, who lift you and inspire you and make you want to be the best version of yourself, or do they poke holes and drain you of the very essence of you?

In life, we all start with the same glass of water, filled about 70% of the way. We have a choice to surround ourselves with people who make us feel clean, who lift us and make us better, or we can choose to surround ourselves with those who cloud our thoughts and drain us of our joy. We sometimes forget that the choice is ours. I’m here to remind you (and myself!) the choice is yours.
Yes, it is true—we are alike. We’re each 70% water. Im choosing to surround myself with those who keep my glass clear and fill me up when my stores become depleted. I hope you will join me in being a glass filler. Stay hydrated, my friends.

































